Love is a beautiful feeling we all experience at least sometime in our life. There are several who fall in love everyday. The emotions of love are in the air and deep down in our hearts. But, many a times we hold back to reveal these sweet feelings of love. What is it that stops many of us from expressing our love? Few people shy away their feelings and find it hard to express their love, while few fear rejection and never disclose their feelings. When you express your love, you really don’t have much to lose, but holding your feelings can do much harm.
I meet so many people who simply find it too hard to show or express their love. The majority of people that I came across were men, whose fears held them back from expressing their love. Many a times we have a fear of rejection and also to lose a good friend. Unless you do not reveal your thoughts and feelings, the other person will never understand you. It is good to express your true feelings, since the person may just consider your proposal and bond with you for life.
Holding back your love may make the other person feel that you are not interested. This may create a vacuum between the two and your love will end even before it begins. There are several married couples who simply don’t wish to express their love for their spouses.
Being married to the person you love, does not put an end to your romantic life, but it only opens a new beginning to love. You should let your partners know how much you love them. This peps up the relationship and keeps you going towards a deeper one.
Most couples, when they don’t express their love, have lots of misunderstanding in their relationship, and could even face the trauma of not being loved, resulting in a lot of quarreling at home. When there are squabbles at home, no one realizes that the expression of these simple words of love is the real cause and could have resolved the problem. Love has great power to keep your relation going forever. Holding back your feelings of love has certainly lots to lose, but revealing them has lots to gain. Every human ear yearns to hear the words of love and appreciation from their partner. Saying “I love you” once in a blue moon does not work. You need to keep saying them frequently during the day to keep your love alive.
There are a few people who do express their love when days are bitter. Even while in a healthy relationship you will find people expressing their love. In fact, this is the secret of their togetherness. No relation is perfect, and no relation works smoothly all the time.
There are certainly a few ups and downs in everyone’s life. However, this does not mean that we have to forget to tell our partners how much we love them.
If of late, you haven’t told your spouse how much you loved him or her, it’s time you do. Buy a special gift for him or her and speak your heart out. Once you express your love, you can feel the difference in your relationship. Keep adding to that dosage of love regularly to keep your relationship healthy and strong.